Videos about ego, China

Something different – more about narcissism (psychology)

At root, narcissism ('life is all about me') is self-loathing projected onto someone else (the scapegoat, who might be driven to death - through illness, madness, suicide; let's call it what it is - emotional torture; in contrast, all others are shown a completely opposite, OTT, 'lovely' persona; and many will be deceived by this).

Narcissism is very destructive; and not often recognized.

This is not a rare thing; it could well be 1 in 5 people.

Don't miss this; Dr. Ramani is awesome.

Ramani Durvasula in conversation with Lewis Howes ...

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Narcissistic fathers and the damage they do to their children ...

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Narcissists, psychopaths and other toxic people

A first step in getting out of a trapped life, to a real life, is to become free of toxic people.

Nobody is perfect; but most people know, to some extent, their faults, feel empathy and try to be better. But some people cannot see their faults, lack empathy and are always 'right' - the most important thing to know is that they cannot be 'fixed', understood, or healed by you (only a highly skilled psychotherapist stands a chance, and that's partly because there is no life relationship).

If you cannot (yet) get away, at least become aware that it is not your problem.

One can sense some similarities in dynamics with geo-politics.

A variety of voices on this topic - in no particular order (may need multiple viewings because it can take time to understand more than superficially) ...

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On the difference between observing and thinking (philosophy / psychology)

Truth lies in being able to see 'what is', without preconception. No what 'I already know' or what 'should be'. First, must come clear sight of that what is (the solution always lies within the question).

Is one a figment of the past, and conditioning, or really alive in the present moment? Half blind or of clear sight ?

With Jiddu Krishnamurti ...

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