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Discover FuJian 福建 province …On the south east coast of China, with ZheJiang to the north and GuangDong to the south.
In part, FuJian is famous for its tea and lychee fruit.
The largest cities include FuZhou (the capital) and XiaMen.
Hakka, a Han Chinese people but with their own distinct identity, live in the southern parts of the province. The Hakka are most associated with their unique TuLou - large, round, communal dwellings.
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At root, narcissism ('life is all about me') is self-loathing projected onto someone else (the scapegoat, who might be driven to death - through illness, madness, suicide; let's call it what it is - emotional torture; in contrast, all others are shown a completely opposite, OTT, 'lovely' persona; and many will be deceived by this).
Narcissism is very destructive; and not often recognized.
This is not a rare thing; it could well be 1 in 5 people.
Don't miss this; Dr. Ramani is awesome.
Ramani Durvasula in conversation with Lewis Howes ...
Narcissistic fathers and the damage they do to their children ...
Narcissistic mothers and the damage they do to their children ...
Narcissism and society ...
On how a narcissist will try to destroy you ...
Is your depression a symptom of being in a narcissistic relationship?
Relationships need some work, including self-reflection; but they shouldn't be hard work - that's a sign it might never work out; if one feels a need to be treading on egg shells, that's confirmation it is doomed. Real relationships are based on mutual respect, flexibility and compassion (unconditional love - no ifs or buts)*; narcissists have none of these attributes.
In a time of stress, does the other stay positive and chip in, or start a blame game? Things like this are the signs to look out for. Does the other help you reach your dreams, or belittle you ? Are they present in the moment or in their own little bubble ? A narcissist can't stand your success or happiness.
Psychopathologies are all about distortions between reality and self, between inner self and behavior. When there is the absence of such distortions - masks, projections, defense mechanisms, etc., there is authenticity. That's going from acting, to really living.
* without needing that person, or allowing oneself to be walked upon. One must be at least somewhat authentic / love oneself first; not trying to complete oneself, etc.
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SiChuan province.
Filmed at the ChengDu Panda Base and the BiFengXia Panda Base.
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With Blondie in China.
Part 1 - all about 'noodles' (more videos soon) ...
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The Shanghai World Expo Opening Ceremony (May 1st, 2010).
A beautiful song from the concert, with Sun ZuYing and featuring Jackie Chan, and the awesome fireworks finale to the music of Puccini's Turandot ...
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AnHui province.
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Bonus film - ZhongShan Park ...
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Happy New Year !
The preview image of the 2nd video is blurred, but the video is sharp. Get a taste of being there in Victoria Harbor that night ...
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The hike to Tai Long Wan (Big Wave Bay).
A beautiful place on the east coast of the Sai Kung Peninsula; a large bay with white sand beaches and seas of tropical blue or turquoise, flanked by rugged headlands and backed by green fields beyond which rise some impressive hills.
The main route follows a stretch of Maclehose Trail, up and over the ridge from Chek Keng - which you can walk to from a bus stop at Pak Tam Au.
Scenes from the video :
This area is within the New Territories (often abbreviated as N.T.), one of the three main regions of Hong Kong, alongside Hong Kong Island and the Kowloon peninsula; it comprises over 85% of Hong Kong's land area (nearly 1,000 square kilometers).
Guided walks in Hong Kong : http://www.walkhongkong.com
See also: http://www.hkoutdoors.com/new-territories/tai-long-wan-sai-kung.html
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